I'm not criticizing. I'd like to understand what might make climbing a tall rock worth losing my life.
But people like challenges, experiences, etc. some of which are never going to be wholly risk free. I'm not going to pressure someone to get out of their comfort zone in a way that puts them in potential physical danger but I fully understand people who pressure themselves. I've certainly gotten into some dicey situations now and then. Nothing serious happened--I was generally prepared--but it wouldn't have taken a lot for things to go sideways.
Or maybe you get distracted and forget to look both ways before crossing the street.
Its the same with mountaineering.