This is not one incident but it happens to many times — when the hiring manager or sometimes other interviewers as well start explaining how:

- team/company works like a family

- we even party together on weekends

- then things like: we “love and own” our work we only leave once it’s done

Or a place that’s not clear and don’t want to be specific about availability/timing requirements i.e clarity about hours (which is by the way like 100% of job posts here on the HN!!!)