They aren't. Your view is correct, at least according to our best current model of the universe.
I suspect that your wife is misinterpreting the articles she is reading; I suspect they are saying only that our current observable universe, which is finite in size, started out as a single point. Which is sort of correct, but is not the same as saying the entire spatially infinite universe started out as a single point.
Part of the problem here is that the "initial singularity" in the models being described (which is where the "single point" language comes from) is not actually part of the universe; it's a mathematical limit that does not actually correspond to anything physical.
> Either the universe isn’t infinite, and therefore has some kind of edge
The "edge" part is not correct. A spatially infinite universe would have the spatial topology of a 3-sphere, which has a finite volume bot no edge (just as the 2-sphere surface of our Earth has a finite area but no edge).