Hams are weird, but at least they're hurting anyone. Theres a good argument to be made that HF trading should be banned.
Ham radio allows the public to use slices of the radio spectrum.
If someone wanted to "hack" on RF projects, what should this person do if the entire spectrum was given to companies and governments + militaries instead?
If you are arguing against ham radio you are basically arguing against hacking, tinkering and experimenting.
FWIW I think repealing the symbol rate restrictions and opening up bands a bit more would go a long way towards the spirit that ham was started with. The hobby seems pretty ossified these days and it would be great to see more advancements in digital modes and stuff closer to the state of the art.
Re disaster support: complete and utter LARP to an embarrassing degree. I've been familiar with a variety of clubs all my life through participating family members and this simply doesn't happen in a way that has any practical benefit to anyone. Again, opening it up would improve disaster comms quality by incentivizing development of better protocols and by getting access to those methods out of the hands of the unqualified gatekeepers of clubs.
Aside from the useful thing they provide, what useful thing do they provide?
We are only nine meals from anarchy. More modernly, we are only 4 technologies away from the Internet. Wired, wifi, cellular, satellite. If those get overwhelmed, which they easily do when stressed, we need to have fallbacks in place for communication. You're right that things are evolving add technology improves, but the hobby has also evolved. Morse code is no longer a requirement, for example.
Open radio spectrum is a natural resource like any other. It is indeed about as commercially useful as a field, a tree, or a patch of blue sky.
For example surfing is “pointless” and leads to a lot of plastic waste but… it leads to health benefits, better swimming skills and a chance to socialise.