I was at a party, a lot of drinking was going on, and my best friend told me he had become a christian. I was shocked and angry, like I was about to lose my best friend. As I was bunkering down for the night on someone's sofa I found myself saying, "Jesus, if you are out there, will you come into my life?" My friend and I started going to church and have been now for 35 years. Neither of us cane from families who did church. I was pretty beaten up emotionally by family life. Looking back what changed my life was faith in God and being part of a community, the church. It's where I met my wife and my two children are now adults. I could tell you about a career in IT and my saas business but life is about relationships and having a hope in something beyond yourself.