First of all, there is no reason behind life. It just is, and on a big enough scale it is just thermodynamic equations in a closed material, but open energy system being driven by sunlight.
Also, in and of itself life is 100% carbon neutral, or actually carbon decreasing as it is not 100% efficient - that small inefficiency is basically how we got many of our current oil/coal reserves. Biology did fix a big “mistake” of it, and since a few million years ago even trees can be properly “burnt” by fungi, so only some carbon is actually lost due to some extreme conditions (like it fall into whatever that embalmed it for a long time).
The problem is that we reintroduce all these lost efficiency buffers in a few years that is such a fast paced change that it has dire consequences.
Also, the reason for carbon in case of life is energy and a fundamental temporary constituent of the very thing. We do use carbon for many things, but the energy part can be entirely replaced by more efficient generation into electricity which is much more readily applicable than ATP is.