Don't hate the player, hate the game (seriously, the system is screwed up horribly)
There is more going on with people and work and money than most people seem to acknowledge when speaking in general.
I know it’s probably multifaceted, but my first thought was that increasing inflation since the 70s has meant that there is an incentive to have as much debt as possible, the hope being that it will be inflated away
1. Friedman, Milton. "The Social Responsibility of Business Is to Increase Its Profits." The New York Times, 13 September 1970, https://web.archive.org/web/20230913104415/https://www.nytim...
2. Carstens, Delphi. "HYPERSTITION." Xenopraxis, n.d., http://xenopraxis.net/readings/carstens_hyperstition.pdf.
I say it is fair to hare the player unless they are working to change/improve the "screwed up" game they are playing.