2. The textbooks use an "open" and "closed" set. But in code, these aren't explicitly stored in set data structures. Instead, they're implicit. The cost_so_far dict(map) contains as keys both the open and closed sets, and the frontier (priority queue) contains the open set. So in my explanation of A* I focus on these data structures (priority queue and dict) instead of the open/closed sets. And when I do talk about the sets, I talk about the combined open and closed sets, calling it "visited" or "reached", because it's the combined set that is actually in the data structures.
3. The textbooks use a priority queue with reprioritization. When you visit a node that has a lower cost than the previously found cost, you go into the priority queue and adjust the cost. In my presentation I don't use reprioritization. Instead, I insert another entry into the priority queue with the lower cost. This makes the priority queue simpler (reprioritization is complicated). And in practice, I think it's faster too.