> it is absolutely never the governments place to tell a parent what they are allowed to teach their child
Essentially everyone in America agrees with you. This is written into our Constitution.
> It is not the responsibility of the state, in any way, shape, or form, to dictate information to a child that the parents take issue with
This is an impossible standard. We have to make public schooling available, and we can't provide individual tutors for every student, so they must be taught in groups. This guarantees that some students will be taught things that their parents take issue with. To compensate for this we make some escape hatches available like homeschooling, private schooling, or moving to a different school district, but these are all difficult or impossible for most parents. Some schools have offered to let parents take their kids out of class when certain topics are taught, but this approach can't scale to all subjects and topics. It also can't address parents upset about what their child is NOT being taught.
I'm not aware of any educational model that gives all parents complete control over their children's education.