It's best to lead by example. There are a million other words to use to express how you feel about this. Consider shaking your vocab tree. I come in peace.
Edit: I stand corrected. I was unaware that this phrase is acceptable and even commonly used. My apologies.
There needs to be a version of Poe's law that deals with trolling vs emotional insensitivity.
I wish I could wave a magic wand and get each comment in threads like this annotated with contextual information. Stuff like age, what relationships with women the commenter has, etc etc. Note I don't think this is remotely possible, just that I'd really like to see the context behind some comments.