But there are few exceptions where permissive projects can also sustain and defend themselves provided they're people powered and well organized. Apache Foundation is a great example here. Despite being permissively licensed, they're able to build projects and products with meritocracy which is apparently untainted by big tech influence so far.
Mozilla is a another example though their acceptance of Google's royalty is an influence of taint which is pretty much visible in their end product, Firefox.
To be honest I wouldn't mind, I always liked SGI, Solaris, HP-UX and Aix better than plain GNU/Linux.
Sure you can opt out, but that’s not respecting user’s privacy.
[0] https://arstechnica.com/information-technology/2016/05/ubunt...
OP just mentioned Ubuntu specifically when making a case for software that respects privacy