Outside the Bay Area, $250K is top dollar.
I find it hard to get roles in the midwest (large metro in Ohio) clearing 200k, though sometimes bonuses get you up there.
I always assumed the reported 250k plus salaries were fake news or only reserved for children of powerful people.
$250k total comp isn't even particularly high at one of the big companies.
It definitely isn't easy to find those numbers if your CoL doesn't require them. You'd need to move to those areas.