Reminds me of: "PacketShader - GPU-accelerated Software Router". https://shader.kaist.edu/packetshader/ , http://keonjang.github.io/papers/sigcomm10ps.pdf
Depends on the application, batching policy, compute intensity, etc. But you can put 8 NICs and 8 GPUs in one node (and have them communicate through nvlink, so huge intergpu bandwidth!) which I can't for CPUs. You can maybe also get some unobtainium A100X or CX7+H100 to skimp on PCIe if you're well funded...