> I want to buy a Mac soon, and I'm really struggling to decide how much RAM I should order.
I'd recommend getting at least 32GB if you're on the fence. Not being able to upgrade it is a bummer, and your future self will thank you for getting the most you possibly can.
For my most recent upgrade I went for 64GB (previously 32GB) and I'm really glad I did, especially since llama.cpp became a thing shortly after getting it.