> The universe isn't naturally shaped in a way that makes interrupting difficult, and never has been.
Yes it is... physical space is shaped to keep most people from being able to interrupt you. Being able to call anyone around the world changed that.
- I had my own room as a kid. My parents and brother banged on the door whenever they pleased.
- I worked at a tech company, had my own desk, and wore headphones. Coworkers still sent me Slack messages and tapped me on my shoulder.
- I've lived in a home in the burbs. People came to my home and rang the bell.
None of them were hard for the interruptor to do, and all of them happened frequently. In fact, I would argue that they are more frequent than the number of phone calls I get nowadays, which are actually easy much easier to screen/ignore than any of the above interruptions.
I would say depending on how bad someone has it they could get 1 to 3 spam calls a day, I assume if someone was getting consistently more than that they'd use a screener to lower it. That's a significant amount.
I'm not here defending spam calls. They are annoying AF.
Nor do I disagree that hypothetically more people on Earth have access to us than ever before. Of course they do.
Nor do I find being interrupted pleasant. I personally find it very annoying, even when it's a loved one.
I'm just making the point that this idea of world where people weren't easy to interrupt never existed.
I am not saying people couldn’t interrupt before, there are simply more ways for more people to interrupt you than ever before.
I'm trying to change this, however, and make a lot more local friends. Despite the higher potential for being interrupted.