Putin tried to do that at the beginning of his presidency. He was talking a lot about joining NATO and even EU, but that didn’t go anywhere. Russia is much more valuable to the EU as a fossil colony.
Russia’s economy was thoroughly fucked by the collapse of the USSR.
Putin’s campaigns in Ukraine have been barbaric and I don’t pretend to understand the logic but Russia’s natural resources cannot make up for their problems.
Beyond that Russia’s hand is so good because of the very imperialism we are all decrying.
You’re arguing that the Russian body politic should shrug off its distinct characteristics and submit to the west.
Hard to see any of that happening with anything short of revolution.