Look, you're either recursing or you're not. If you're not recursing, you're not really validating DNSSEC records. If you are, you're not vulnerable to NXDOMAIN ads. The NXDOMAIN thing is in fact not a good use case for DNSSEC. That's all I'm saying here, I'm not making any broader claim than that. Of course you can just install a recursive resolver on your router. But then you don't need DNSSEC!