First of all shipping companies are geared to service larger
business no the piss-ant customer that does 1-2 shipments per day.
There are automated solutions for all this stuff that makes it very
easy. No shipping company in their right mind would change their
workflow to make it easier to a "home" user.
I think the OP is asking for the creation of a company that
does focus on "home" users, precisely
because their current shipping experience is so fucked up.
Why they heck would they.
Because there seems to be a huge demand for reasonably-priced, "home"-user oriented shipping. Dealing with the current system is a huge pain in the ass if you're not a huge company, and the OP (like me, and others, I'm sure) would be willing to pay a premium for higher quality service.