I think it completely depends on where you live and what you want. Here in Germany the Teslas are quite expensive when compared with e.g. VWs and are about on par with BMWs I can't imagine any circumstances where I would buy a Tesla.

I think what you should do is try to figure out what kind of car you want and what you want to do with it. The likelihood that you won't find anything that fits seems quite small, since most of the world's largest automakers are trying to make cars exactly for people like you.