Me and everyone I know who grew up playing Zelda, we were left utterly baffled by turn based RPGs when we played them. I remember one of my friends left final fantasy seven back to the shop. Wondering how on earth it got amazing reviews when it seemed to be a bunch of menus and cut scenes.
They had similar thoughts about knights of the old republic.
I'm not disagreeing with your point btw. I've just never got on with turn based games