From the article: "This is not meant to disparage therapists, advocates, or grief counselors. Each person must find their own way to deal with the reality that we perceive: what works for one may not work for others."

Wrong on what? The article is clear it didn't work for the author and Jake, but makes no judgment for others

I think I know why you’re downvoted but I agree. Not to take anything away from this beautiful and sad article but it’s easy for people dealing with mental illness to be dissuaded from getting professional help, which on average is very likely a very bad idea.