The concern is probably mostly about the power grid. Power problems have caused outages at large colo centers in the last 5 years.
The breakers in your home breaker box operate the exact same way. A 20A breaker will trip once you exceed a certain threshold, which I believe is 16 or 17. They're rated to go to 20 by the factory, but to prevent problems with overloading and causing fires/explosions/etc, they purposefully break at a lower threshold.
So this isn't just a colo price scam thing, this is the way the world works.
2. A 20 A circuit breaker is allowed to trip at 20.000001 A. Derating the continuous load provides the safety margin for reliable operation, even using inexpensive circuit breakers.