And OK fine. It's not that bad, most C ABIs are able to work around this reasonably OK (not all of them but sure, let's just call it a skill issue.) But then what do you do when you want anything more complicated than a completely fixed-size type? Like for example... a string. Or an array. Now we can't just use a struct, a single request will need to be split into multiple different structures at the bare minimum.
And plus, there's no real reason to limit this all to the same machine. Tunneling UNIX domain sockets over the network is perfectly reasonable behavior and most* SSH implementations these days support this. So I think scoping the interoperability to "same machine" is unnecessarily limiting, especially when it's not actually hard to write consistent de/serialization in any language.
* At least the ones I can think of, like OpenSSH[1], Go's x/crypto/ssh[2], and libssh2[3].
[1]: https://www.openssh.com/txt/release-6.7
[2]: https://pkg.go.dev/golang.org/x/crypto/ssh#Client.ListenUnix