I'm also not sure how to answer your question. Obviously a query builder is just spitting out queries that you can just write yourself. In the best case, they're a thin wrapper to give different names to SQL (e.g. where vs filter, select vs map, join vs flatMap). Perhaps an example would be how frequently, ORMs encourage you to do a load-modify-save pattern that turns into multiple statements to execute. This is usually more code, more error-prone, and worse performing than just doing an UPDATE WHERE. If you need complex reporting with a dozen joins and several window functions, you'll also see how difficult it is to write similar code in an application.
I'm not sure what you mean with composition of the language. The language consists of operators which you can chain together, and you can substitute expressions into each other to form larger expressions. E.g. you can join to a (select from where group by) expression in place of a table, and you can factor such things out into CTEs. What's not composable?