I'm pro-choice, but labeling terms like 'unborn babies' as 'weird' for being 'politically loaded' feels like an unproductive distraction. You're just adding bait to a divisive debate rather than contributing any real substance to the conversation.
Using the divisive terminology is what’s divisive, not the comment complaining about the divisive language
But, since we're here, I think it's loaded because it implies the fetus will be born. It kind of gives the impressions that a fetus is equivalent to a baby given enough time, hence they are unborn babies. I think that language is inherently anti-choice. It seems nitpicky but these subtle collective consciousness changes result in culture shifts over time.