This simply isn't true. You are stuck in the past and unwilling to adapt and learn new, in fact, better alternatives.

I'm currently using Go with Ent and Gqlgen and Relay extension on the backend and React vite with Relay graphql client as well as React-oidc-context for oidc with zitadel as the oidc idp.

It doesn't take 2 days to make a simple form.

You need to get put your comfort zone and learn.

I built a classifieds site in 3 weeks. Including admin ui. I'd call that as productive as it gets. There's currently as library in the works where you will be able to tell generative AI to make a frontend just from showing it the graphql schema.