But bitcoin is still new, not fully understood, in limited supply, relatively illiquid (compared to other currencies and financial assets), and coming onto the scene right in the middle of a banking system and sovereign debt crisis unlike anything ever seen and most of its early adopters see it as a hedge against that.
So, volatility is going to be norm for bitcoin's foreseeable future.
Bitcoins are more like stocks in my opinion. People don't use stocks to buy day to day items either. They're investments, some riskier than others. And that risk, which would be catastrophic to a currency such as the US dollar, is much more easy to tolerate if it's just another non-currency investment vehicle that you can choose to participate in or not.
If BTCs are not useful as an actual currency, then isn't it purely an investment vehicle that isn't backed up by any sort of real value, present or future?
Stocks are the same. The value of a stock is really only it's dividend, and many stocks don't (or can't) pay much. The cost has little to do with the value.