Most things that have tried to set affinities have ended up screwing it up.
There's no need to put an easier user interface on the footgun or to make the footgun cross-platform. These interfaces provide opportunities for small wins (generally <5%) and big losses. If you're in a supercomputing center or a hyperscaler running your own app, this is worth it; if you're writing a DBMS that will run on tens of thousands of dedicated machines, it may be worth it. But usually you don't understand the way you'll be employed well enough to know if this is a win.