I don't care if users see "my" ipv4 because cgnat. I
think i don't care if they can see my ipv6 because each machine gets a /64 to itself, that's the logic, right?
But my PBX and my matrix server both use coturn. Our 10 user "private" PBX we have to VPN into a fortigate in a DC to use, but to my understanding, there's literally no way to eavesdrop on those calls without already compromising the server it's running on, and if that's the case, no extra VPN steps or whatever will help.
anyhow even with a real, publicly routable IP, stock windows 11, stock macos (used to be true), and most linuxes won't get compromised by stuff like backorifice or whatever else l0pht put out as "remote administration tools". that is, there usually isn't any listening ports on a public IP these days. Shield's Up!