It is not about you, it is me trying to help you observe what happens. It is about people just like you. Society.
The outrage over transgenders are psychological tricks to split a populace. Let people make it their identity. Normalize bullying, normalize bullshit, normalize "might makes right".
They need it, because they are few and you are numerous. You must excuse them. You should be fighting your peer.
Or at least believe both sides are not clean, so you should excuse their power grab. That is the binary belief trap I spotted.
"Haha, see the tears of those hypocrites, lol".
Well, your house is burning.