This was actually a great post and made me aware of your product for the first time.
I eventually landed here: https://getlago.com/docs/guide/self-hosted/
It would be nice if there was a feature matrix for self hosted premium vs open features, since that's the first thing self-hosted people are going to be looking for.
Also, I'm looking at your Lever page, but no SWE roles are listed. Maybe if this post really does numbers, that'll be changing soon!