There's every indication the US is essentially saturated by Facebook. My in-real-life friends who want to be on Facebook are already there. That's the usual ~150 that I think studies show is max nearly everyone can maintain. I also have a nearly equal number of purely Internet or Facebook or Professional friends. I'm not inclined to have less but I get the strong feeling a good portion of my friends want less, not more people to interact with online.
I wouldn't mind meeting new people. But I no reason to have more Facebook friends.
Perhaps the only way Facebook can keep its momentum going is to sponsor picnics and couples dancing across country. The only way to get aggregate more Facebook connections between people would be for people to suddenly actually have more "real life" friends.