We apparently have a society/world that normalizes breaking everyone's shit. That's not normal - IMO.
If I break into a factory or laboratory of some kind and just walk out again I have not found a "vulnerability" and I certainly won't be remunerated or awarded status or prestige in any way shape or form. I will be prosecuted. Everyone can break into stuff. It's not that stuff is unbreakable, it's that you just don't do that because the consequences are enormous (besides obvious issues with morality). Again, breaking stuff is the easy part.
I am certainly completely ignorant and should be drawn and quartered for it, but for me it is hard to put my finger where I'm so wrong.
I can see how the immaterial nature of software systems changes the nature of the defense, but I don't see how it immediately follows that breaking stuff that's not allowed to be broken by you is suddenly the norm and nothing can be done against that. We just have to shrug and accept our fate?