Yes but those would be often omitting some proper personal shit from their lives. We don't (need to) do such things for gorilla pack leader.

If you properly look around and sometimes go deeper than pleasant very few people are uncritically good people from various angles.

Assuming a stable population, if some males are fathering dozens of offspring, the bulk of males are probably fathering zero. Are those males still part of society or are then shunned/killed? What does the life of a not-dominant male look like? One who isn't the king's favorite?

I dunno. I’m not sure how to calibrate that to human standards—I’m sure gorilla parenting is not quite as involved as human parenting.

Yes, I would have as many children as I could afford to comfortably raise.

at least that gorilla seemed more caring of his 28 offspring and his community than say some billionaire's obsessed with having children...