Imo, deepending on the desired quality of the result and the amount and complexity of bespoke requirements, the more of the former are present, the more strongly I consider rolling something bespoke.

With out-of-the-box libraries, the more custom requirements I have, the more trouble I tend to have supporting them, and trying to make something do a thing it wasn't designed for, can erase initial gains very quickly. At least this has been my experience over the years.