rachelbythebay is asking which ISPs allow spoofed UDP packets.
The way this attack works is you send a query to an open resolver, using the target's IP address as the "source" IP address in the UDP header instead of your own.
However, ISPs can (and should) block UDP packets where the source IP address is outside the IP-blocks they own. Why don't ISPs do this?
I'm not really sure what the rest of your post has to do with any of this.