But I guess it's not the same as being asked "where's the air gap" pointing at the optocoupler, and saying "there it is"
In the past I have worked in defence, for highly sensitive stuff they wouldn't even allow a common ground between two networks.
That's why I chose an option iolsator, it ensures the two devices are electrically isolated.
It's overkill for this application, but I wanted to set something up right, and if I ever have another project like this that needs to be more secure, it's ready to go.
I actually agree very much with this. If you're looking for strong assurance that there is no possible back-channel, devices like optocouplers help significantly. It's not hard for me to think of a way to surreptitiously send data backwards through a common ground, or normal silicon diode, or a magnetic coupler like an Ethernet transformer, but optoisolators make it significantly more challenging.