the iframe bloat problem is real. been using lite-youtube-embed for similar reasons. curious how yours compares - do you render the thumbnail server-side or client-side, and how do you handle the cookie consent modal that youtube forces now
We implemented it as a drop-in replacement:
-- <iframe src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/aqz-KE-bpKQ">
++ <iframe src="https://www.embedlite.com/embed/aqz-KE-bpKQ">
Nothing else needed.