I agree there is an apparent tone of misandry in some of the rhetoric of the left but the actual beliefs you cite are (with the exception of a few) things men on the right say about other men.
You know who run on identity politics? It was the republicans.
> A lot of men aren't really right-wing, rather, they're in left-wing exile.
A lot of men are left. And a lot of men are explicitly openly right wing.
Somehow, there is no talking point about men exiting conservativism because of active push for the above look at masculinity. The opposition toward the above view is supposed to manifest exclusively by moving toward people who super actively promote it.
If anything, the left-wing promotes men to be vulnerable and seek help if they need it. At least where I'm from that's the case. I'm stumped how different our views are on this.
Right: Men need to perform and they are good people
Gee, why are men voting right? Can you figure it out?
I mean this as an encouragement to fix leftism, not to vote for the other guys.