An exercise in trading anecdotes isn't going to get anyone anywhere. The fact that the people you've surrounded yourself are relatively well off does not offset problems surrounding unemployment and falling wages.
/sarcasm
I'll be the first one there with you waving signs about unemployment problems and falling wages--do you have any idea how annoying it can be to get livable rates in my area? Where are you from sir (or madam)?
My point was that some notion of the "American Dream" is far from dead or ailing--it's merely changed to something less materialistic.
EDIT: praptak nailed it.
Which differ from the journalist's take. The American Dream not so much fading as changing.
Reciting the same grim statistics about unemployment and falling wages yet again is what "isn't going to get anyone anywhere." But this sort of conversation? Quite the opposite.