Event organizers will need to start charging refundable deposits. If you show up, you get your deposit back.
https://world.hey.com/jason/5300-in-100s-3be4c194
https://world.hey.com/jason/5300-in-100s-the-verdict-74c4108...
Even a token fee like $5 would probably dramatically cut frivolous RSVP and noshow rates.
(I am sorta building something around this idea… lots of yak-shaving happening though.)