"Ok... Now I see some differences. On one, the
buttons are slightly larger, the colours slightly
more nuanced, the shading is subtly different. If
I zoom to an extreme level, the font on "ebay"
in slightly smoother."
I understand the above is frustrating, however, you are missing the main reason the image needed some extra love.The main difference is pixel fitting [1]. The fuzzy border lines on the buttons are like "nails on a chalkboard" to me. "Nails on a chalk board" don't actually bother me that much but I notice it. For many cases I would just ignore it. However, if I am shipping a product that I am hoping will get free advertising from people talking about how beautifully it is designed, I am going to pixel fit the damn thing.
In this case, the designer is not being crazy, he is looking out for the the bottom line. Free word of mouth advertising and free blog articles written about the beauty of the pixels contribute to the bottom line much more than the cost of doing a little pixel fitting.
Look at the Hulu example below