This is old but I'm going to respond, here.

Absolutely not. If anything, I'm saying the opposite. Which is to say, every group has their problematic and/or unfortunate people and whatnot, but -- that's not who I'm around. Generally e.g. professionals who I know themselves would not personally tolerate such things.

So, yeah, what I'm saying is perhaps exactly the type of woman you would not expect to be forgiving, many of them are (and they happen to be black.)