> Android's security model isn't the only inevitable option
I never said it was. I said "we need a modern security model in a modern mobile OS, and Linux on Mobile doesn't remotely have that".
> Ubuntu Touch was made 13 years ago. What did security look like on Android 13 years ago?
That's a bit my point. If Linux on Mobile is 13 years late, against modern mobile systems that get the resources they get (that is, orders of magnitude more than Linux on Mobile), you're not really catching up. And if you had enough resources to maintain such a project, maybe it would be interesting to fork AOSP instead of spending a decade catching up?
> We can only assume [...] would evolve and grow to meet the needs of the platform in the market.
Is that the only assumption we are allowed to make? When countless alternatives from Microsoft, Samsung and others failed?
> I also assume one of the reasons people want a Linux phone is to have more control, having root without needing to jump through hoops, side loading apps, building from source, etc.
Totally, this is what many of them say. Though side loading, building from sources and the "etc" I can imagine totally work with AOSP. I can easily have root on AOSP, I don't know what "jumping through hoops" means here (other than "I want it enabled by default on official builds").
> I think there is also an assumption that people will play better in a classic Linux environment
I believe that GrapheneOS plays nice and makes a nice system. As for the apps, I barely use tens of apps (realistically I mostly use what... ten of them?), so it's not completely crazy to ask me to select 10 good apps from the billions available. And those that are proprietary (e.g. for public transport) I wouldn't have a choice on Linux (probably they wouldn't exist there).
> but most people don't care
I do care. I run GrapheneOS. Because I disagree with you does not mean I do not care.