> Ah, but you're missing perhaps the most probable scenario from the Russia side. Their primary goal for Ukraine was not particularly extreme - they wanted Ukraine to agree to remain a neutral country outside of NATO.
> And those negotiations would have indeed almost certainly succeeded if the West didn't jump in and encourage Ukraine to "just fight".
Nope, Russians wanted far more than just neutrality. The March–April 2022 peace negotiations in Istanbul ultimately failed because Russians refused to let go of their most controversial demands: severe reductions and restrictions of Ukrainian military.
Key Military Reduction Demands:
• Personnel Limits: Russia demanded that the Ukrainian standing peacetime army be capped at 50,000 to 85,000 troops (compared to the much larger forces Ukraine maintained or later negotiated in subsequent frameworks).
• Weapon and Equipment Caps: Strict quantitative and qualitative ceilings were demanded on Ukrainian military hardware, including deep restrictions on armored combat vehicles and tanks, artillery and rocket systems, combat aircraft and anti-air assets
• Missile Range Bans: Moscow demanded a complete prohibition on Ukraine acquiring or possessing long-range missile systems.
• Foreign Aid and Alliances Ban: Ukraine was required to renounce NATO aspirations, ban foreign military bases or troops, and prohibit joint military exercises or Western military aid.
• Veto Power: Russia insisted on a security guarantee structure that would grant Moscow (along with other permanent UN Security Council members) a veto over any international intervention if Ukraine were attacked again.
Source: https://www.atlanticcouncil.org/blogs/ukrainealert/putins-20...
This is basically capitulation, and absolutely unacceptable for any sovereign state. No serious national leader would agree to this, and Russia refused to compromise. Ukrainians had no choice but to fight. The demands would result in a nation that is so defenseless that they would inevitably end up as a Russian vassal state in the near future.