If I’m paying you 250 bucks, then why do I have to do your cleaning company’s job? This is nonsensical self-checkout-like behavior.
Again these are clear expectations set up front before someone books, and I've never had a guest complain about them. If you are really that averse to taking out the trash and sticking your dishes in the dishwasher, my property probably isn't for you and you probably aren't the guest for me.
If I don't have the ability to make simple and reasonable requests like this, I'm going to have to work around it. In this case that means telling my cleaners I need them there immediately after someone checks out, which almost certainly means my cleaning fee is going up to $350.