I think that's also misdirected frustration. The only people that can genuinely determine the composition of the Supreme Court are the Supreme Court Justices themselves. Parties can only control such by chance alone. And so Justices staying in office to the point of their literal death is extremely selfish. It removes any sort of guaranteed 'balance' in succession, because your successor is going to be a random pick based on a balance between the Presidency and Senate.
It also creates a scenario where people remain on the bench long after their competence has likely faded. RBG, for instance, was 87 years old when she 'retired.' Her final wish is to not be replaced until a new President had been sworn in, which was predictably not granted. She had 30 years to choose that presidency herself, but simply refused to do so.