You are being downvoted (edit: and flagged) because you are disproportionately aggro which undermines your point.
This is an accurate description of one's bad behavior.
If you believe these word choices are inaccurate, we can discuss, but mischaracterizing the reply as "aggressive" is just bad faith (and against the rules).
> Be kind. Don't be snarky. Converse curiously; don't cross-examine. Edit out swipes.