I have kids, I have a full life, lots of stuff to do like .. work, chores. Private stuff includes learning ancient Greek and practicing cello both of which need zero tech, in case of the Greek, and minimal tech in case of the cello (tuner). No amount of “software” will accelerate human processes like these. Using “apps” for Greek is a distraction at best. Just read and practice. Sit down and practice with a book, it’s not a hard concept and it’s the fastest way to where you’re going.
My kids? They need books, play, chess, puzzles, outside. They have zero and I emphasize zero need for technology. It’s all distraction at best.
I am a developer. I grew up with technology and I loved it, but I recognize its toxicity if not properly contained. Use tech where it makes sense: at work and wherever there are cognitive chores of questionable inherent value. Anything else? It’s a distraction at best and a huge waste of time and resources at worst. AI makes this divide even worse. We have armies of people building nonsense like “household management systems” for a family of two. We have dog walking management, grocery management, temperature sensors in two bedroom apartments. All this is a complete and utter waste of time and resources.
What we need to do? Standardize, consolidate. Like electricity and fuel etc, software is an utility. Standard way of messaging, standard way of datawarehousing, APIing. More tech ain’t the solution, consolidation is. We have enough tech already, more than we know what to do with.