The important distinction in this case is about FTL existing but not being able to exploit it for FTL communication.
The important distinction in this case is about FTL existing but not being able to exploit it for FTL communication.
In reality the entangled particle will interact with something almost instantly thus collapsing it. The cat is actually dead or alive from the perspective of the microscopic things in the box. A world never witnessed or measured by a being doesn't collapse it's entire history of interactions of every subatomic particle, atom, molecule and emergent property from the start of the universe to 'now' instantaneously upon being viewed. The photons from that world have been hitting earth continuously since earth existed after all.
The new thing you're mentioning is a common observation about observers: if there are two cats in the box, should they be |dead dead> + |alive alive> or is one measuring the other and they've collapsed to a classical state? This depends on a person being outside the box; the scenario is called Wigner's friend. It's been used to show many other unintuitive aspects of quantum physics.